Cockroach Theory of Self Development- Stay Motivated

Cockroach Theory of Self Development- Stay Motivated

This Story is about a Cockroach The Cockroach who changed my thinking about handling the problems in life The story is as following

One day I was enjoying tea at the restaurant on another table, there was a group of ladies enjoying their kitty party A cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady She started screaming out of fear with a panic stricken face and trembling voice she started jumping, with her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but, it landed on another lady in the group Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panic Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama The waiter rushed forward to their rescue In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt When he was confident enough, he grabbled it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant and everything seems fine now Sipping my tea and watching the amusement and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their historic behavior ?? If yes, then why waiter was not affected? The waiter was very calm and handled him efficiently If cockroach was not the problem then, whom ?? It is not the cockroach but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies I realised that, it is not the shouting of my boss in office or my wife at home that disturbs me but it's my inability to handle the disturbance caused by their shouting that disturbs me it's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life

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