After having two kids my wife never wants sex

DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE our second babe was stand, my wife’s sex drive has vanished.

It is always me who originates gender and 90 per cent of children of the time she turns me down flat.

My requests for sexuality are categorically rejectedGetty – Contributor

We have been married for ten years, with a little sons aged four and a girl of six months. We’re 34.

I have been patient and understanding.

I never misled or even considered it.

I know we lead hectic, stressful lives but I can’t get my wife to do anything nostalgic any more.

It was my birthday the week before our anniversary and I said not to worry about it but that we should do something special for our anniversary.

She said she couldn’t be bothered.

I know I am jumping to conclusions but I worry she is getting gender elsewhere.

DEIDRE SAYS: It is not unusual for childbirth to compel loss of sex drive and I wonder if your bride has postnatal depression.

Tell her you are worried about her and indicate she envision her GP.

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Ask how you can help. The good foreplay for a tired mum is also possible you bathing the baby.

My e-leaflet Sex Problems After A Baby? has ideas.

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